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Dating etiquette from the 1950’s (approximately 20 years after the shift from courtship to dating) noted that it was a function of a man’s nature to take the initiative in romantic engagements: Fair or not, it is the way of life.From the Stone Age, when men chased and captured their women, comes the yen of a boy to do the pursuing.Moreover, this end was what guided the intention of the suitor and the standard by which a young lady could measure a man’s suitability.So far from dating is this integral relation to marrying, and marrying well.Kevin Kwasnik is a writer and the vice-president for research of Pro Life Pro Patria. Baltimore: The Johns Hopkins University Press, 1988, pp 13-24. Emile: or, On Education, introduction, translation, and notes by Allan Bloom.

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Thus, after their meeting, a man owed his hostess a formal letter of gratitude for the hospitality he received.What would a regime of courtship look like that was both civilized and equitable, that took gender differences seriously but still gave both parties a position of freedom and agency? Amy and Leon Kass, married scholars at University of Chicago, who propose a return to courtship as a path that lays the foundation for marital bliss.According to the Kasses, courtship is the practice of “finding and winning the right one, for marriage.” The term “courting,” they report, goes back to the 16th century: “to pay amorous attention to, to woo, with a view to marriage.” The meaning of the term “to woo” can easily be lost in a culture whose members may care little for love and even less for marriage.Though this script may seem strange, this view offers a certain advantage to the current cultural script we are offered: namely, that the disposition of wooing is far nobler than that of pursuit.Within dating, pursuit mainly has the character of acquisition or conquest, where wooing demands “a heart full of an overflowing sentiment [that] likes to open itself,” in words from Jean-Jacques Rousseau’s Emile.

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